Entering my “soft life” era!

Lately, I’ve been unapologetically stepping into what many call the “soft life” era. No, it’s not about luxury handbags or endless spa days (though I wouldn’t say no to those). For me, it’s about intentional ease, aligned priorities, and choosing peace over productivity just for productivity’s sake. And the best part? I’m completely okay with it. It’s not about giving up ambition; it’s about redefining success. It means savoring slow mornings, prioritizing mental health, and setting boundaries without guilt. It’s choosing rest as a necessity, not a reward. Initially, I struggled with guilt, feeling like I wasn’t “doing enough.”

But, I realized my worth isn’t tied to productivity. Releasing that guilt is an act of self-compassion. I still have goals, but I pursue them with balance. I let go of what drains me and choose ease as an act of self-care. If you’re feeling drawn to a softer way of living, lean into it. Start small. Let yourself rest without justification. Success and joy can coexist. Choosing the soft life isn’t weakness—it’s strength. Here’s to living with grace, ease, and the belief that peace is something we all deserve.

Dr. Kimberly VanBuren
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With a phD in pscyhology and over 17 years of working with clients, I’ve gained a deep understanding of why people struggle to achieve their goals and have developed a passion for teaching the skills needed to navigate life effectively. It’s not a lack of effort, potential, or desire that holds people back—it’s the complexity of life and the limiting beliefs we often get stuck in.

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