What If You Allowed Yourself to Be a Beginner?

Spring is nature’s gentle reminder that beginnings are beautiful. The blossoms, the fresh breeze, the longer days — all echo the spirit of renewal. And just like the earth awakens from its winter slumber, this season invites you to wake up something within yourself.

What have you been postponing? Maybe it’s a creative project, a fitness goal, a career change, or even that hobby you keep promising you’ll explore “someday.” Spring whispers that today could be that day.

But starting something new means being a beginner. It means making mistakes, facing discomfort, and not having all the answers. And that’s not just okay — it’s necessary.

I remember when I left the Air Force and completed grad school. Suddenly, I found myself at a crossroads, wondering what came next. I knew I wanted to help people, but stepping away from a structured environment into the unknown? That was terrifying. Starting Balancing LMS wasn’t a perfect, polished leap — it was a series of awkward steps, stumbles, and lessons learned. But each misstep brought me closer to a career I love. And guess what? The fear didn’t win. Growth did.

Why Failing is a Gift

  • Failure means you tried. You took the leap.
  • Every stumble teaches you something valuable.
  • Growth happens not in perfection, but in persistence.

Imagine the freedom of releasing the pressure to be instantly great. What would shift if you embraced the awkward, messy middle? If you treated every misstep as a sign of progress instead of a reason to stop?

This Spring, Give Yourself Permission to:

  • Be a beginner without judgment.
  • Fail forward and celebrate your courage.
  • Learn, adapt, and grow at your own pace.

The truth is, nobody posts the unfiltered version of their beginnings. But the shaky, uncertain starts are what lead to the breakthroughs. And if you’re willing to begin, you’re already ahead.

So, what will you begin this season? Your future self will thank you for starting.

Here’s to embracing the beauty of being a beginner. You just might surprise yourself.

Dr. Kimberly VanBuren
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With a phD in pscyhology and over 17 years of working with clients, I’ve gained a deep understanding of why people struggle to achieve their goals and have developed a passion for teaching the skills needed to navigate life effectively. It’s not a lack of effort, potential, or desire that holds people back—it’s the complexity of life and the limiting beliefs we often get stuck in.

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