The Positive Effects of Gratitude
Gratitude, Wellness, Wellness Wednesday Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Gratitude, Wellness, Wellness Wednesday Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

The Positive Effects of Gratitude

Gratitude is a subjective concept. We can argue a dozen different ways, with everyone having valid points. But practicing gratitude is a personal journey. Filled with varying methods of thinking and showing our gratitude. Creating gratitude goals and committing to the experience of appreciation helps us focus on the things we currently have in our lives instead of reaching for more items or something different. 

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Self-Care is no longer an option….it is mandatory!
Self-Care, Stress, Wellness, Work-Life Balance, Wellness Wednesday Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Self-Care, Stress, Wellness, Work-Life Balance, Wellness Wednesday Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

Self-Care is no longer an option….it is mandatory!

If you live on earth like me, you have noticed that many negative things happen everywhere we look. Everything from inequity in education to the opioid crisis to COVID to mass shootings… things can seem as though they are all bad.

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Optimizing Your Time

Optimizing Your Time

There are 168 hours a week and 24 hours a day; this will not change; time is finite. It is essential that we make the most of that time while still having healthy priorities. Here are a few tips to help you recognize what things in our lives need immediate attention, what things are a priority, and what things are not essential to our wellness.

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I Can’t Breathe
Breathing, Stress, Self-Care, Wellness Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Breathing, Stress, Self-Care, Wellness Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

I Can’t Breathe

Unless you have a medical condition, breathing is done mostly without effort. We do it every day, all day long, so of course, we know how… right? Wrong! I am here to tell you that our breathing techniques are inadequate. Of course, it is enough to keep us alive, but is our technique promoting the relaxing benefits that appropriate breathing can bring? Only you know.

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Too Busy
Wellness, Work-Life Balance, Time Management, Expectations Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Wellness, Work-Life Balance, Time Management, Expectations Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

Too Busy

“I am so busy,” “I just have so much to do,” “I don’t have enough time”; how many times have we all said that? It happens to me more often than I would like. In one week, there are 168 hours, and it often feels as though they pass within the blink of an eye. Where does the time go, and why can’t I seem complete the things I need to do?

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Social Media Stress
Stress Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Stress Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

Social Media Stress

You have heard the expression “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence,” right? We generally understand this phrase to mean situations tend to look better for other people when looking from a distance. Although we may say the phrase all of the time, do we really believe it?

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Disconnect
Stress, Work-Life Balance Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S Stress, Work-Life Balance Dr. Kimberly VanBuren, PhD, LMFT/LPC-S

Disconnect

Has this ever happened to any of you? You are more than halfway to wherever you are going. Traffic is heavy, and you hope to make it to your destination on time. Then it happens!! You realize…. GASP… you have forgotten your phone at home! For many of us, no matter the circumstances, we will turn around to retrieve the phone. Why is that?

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