Valentine, Galentine, Self-Love

As we approach Valentine’s Day, I acknowledge that this is a time we focus on celebrating love and connection. As the years go by, the day evolves, including more ways to focus on love. I want to highlight that love isn’t limited to romantic relationships.

Galentine’s Day has become EXTREMELY popular in recent years. It is all about celebrating the bonds of friendship. Friends use this occasion to express love and appreciation for their platonic friends, acknowledging the importance of these relationships in their lives. It’s a day to celebrate the joy and support that true friendships bring. Galentine’s Day allows friends to empower and support each other. It’s a day to lift one another, celebrate achievements, and provide encouragement. This positive and supportive atmosphere fosters a sense of camaraderie and strengthens the bonds of friendship.

Valentine’s Day can sometimes come with societal expectations and romantic pressures. Galentine’s Day offers a break from these pressures, allowing friends to enjoy a day focused on friendship without conforming to traditional romantic gestures.

Let’s take it a step further. One of the most profound and lasting forms of love is the one we cultivate for ourselves. Let’s focus on the transformative power of self-love and identify ways to nurture a positive and loving relationship with ourselves. Here are a few simple ways to fall back in love with ourselves this Valentine’s Day!

  1. Take some time to reflect on your personal growth. Remind yourself of the challenges you have overcome and the progress you have made. Celebrating your journey can foster a sense of self-appreciation and resilience.
  2. Surround yourself with positive influences: supportive friends, inspiring books, or uplifting music. Creating an environment that nurtures positivity can significantly impact your mindset.
  3. Express your appreciation for yourself through the written word. A heartfelt love letter to oneself can be powerful in acknowledging your worth and affirming your positive qualities.
  4. Introduce mindfulness and gratitude practices. Focus on being present in the moment. Appreciate the small joys in life, and express gratitude for your surroundings and experiences.
  5. Incorporate self-care rituals into your routine. Try activities that promote relaxation, whether a warm bath, a quiet walk, or dedicating time to sitting and doing nothing. These practices can be vital in reinforcing a positive relationship with yourself.

These are just five of the many things you can do to focus on your love for yourself. You are worth all the time and energy you spend on others, too.

Dr. Kimberly VanBuren
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With a phD in pscyhology and over 17 years of working with clients, I’ve gained a deep understanding of why people struggle to achieve their goals and have developed a passion for teaching the skills needed to navigate life effectively. It’s not a lack of effort, potential, or desire that holds people back—it’s the complexity of life and the limiting beliefs we often get stuck in.

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